All of us are the same yet unique. All of us have something that differentiates us from the rest. As we establish relationships, we find that people are different from how we might have expected them to be.
Our inherent instinct could be to change them by pointing out all that is bothering us. But that is not the right way to go. The other person will feel that you are pointing out their faults and will resist accepting even if there are certain faults that they have.
Also, we should accept that all of us have some faults. Instead of being accused or pointed out for that, every one of us would like to feel accepted for who we are. Yes, there is always room for improvement, And we can be each other’s support in overcoming them.
It is important to love and show love. It is what makes us feel warm and wanted. When you love someone whole-heartedly, you want to give them all the happiness in the world. If it involves changing little things about you, then you would willingly do that too or make an honest effort at the least. It will make you a better person in the process.
Constructive criticism is a good way of saying things but it does not work for people who are sensitive, Therefore, we need to be careful of the person’s feelings and if we really need to change anything about them, we should find the strength in our love to make that happen.
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